Taking the momentous decision to let go of someone you love is a brave step. In doing so, you are proving to yourself that you are capable of creating your happiness and that you do not need to rely on someone else to make you feel as though life is worth living.
The key to letting go of someone you love is facing what has happened, accepting that you can’t change it, and moving on. Once you’re able to move on and appreciate the growth that came from the relationship, better opportunities will present themselves.
Loise Kim is a Kenyan Gospel Artist. Apart from music, she is also a mother of two, CEO, brand ambassador, and influencer. In the recent past, Loise Kim started her college called Lodam College which ds with courses about hospitality, beauty, and others courses. Unfortunately, Loise lost her race to being the Women’s Rep of Kiambu County.
Even though she is always in the limelight, she lives a private life. Luckily through her Facebook page, she loves to give people hope in life, and at times offers advice and also posts inspiring notes.
In the recent past, Loise Kim wrote an interesting message on her Facebook page. she stated that at times it is very hard to let go of someone you loved in your life. But at times you have to do it because may your other partner moved on with life. Loise stated that this is the hardest life lesson, change is never easy to deal with.
At times people try their best to make their relationship or marriage work. Others cry, involve family members, friends, and pastors, and even fast due to their marriages. Unfortunately, there is no permanent outcome. Loise urged people to let them go no matter how bad it feels and hurts. She also urged people to stop stressing and thinking over them.
Remember you also have your own life to live. Treat yourself well, do what makes you happy, meet with people who make you feel appreciated, and love other people like you never loved in the past. In life, everybody lives once so there is no rehearsing about the future. The best thing in life is to heal and move on with life.
Tips for letting go of someone
1. Create a positive mantra to counter painful thoughts.
2. Create physical distance.
3. Do your work.
4. Practice mindfulness.
5. Be gentle with yourself.
6. Allow the negative emotions to flow.
7. Accept that the other person may not apologize.
8. Engage in self-care.
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