- Jeff Guenther, from Portland, Oregon, has become a viral sensation on TikTok
- The expert therapist has detailed the ‘silly’ issues that can lead to a relationship break-up
- He shared his advice in a now-viral video from the social media platform
A therapist has revealed the three ‘dumbest’ arguments he’s seen and even the strongest romances fall apart – and why the little things make a big difference.
Jeff Guentherfrom Portland, Oregon, has become a social media sensation on TikTok by regularly sharing his relationship expertise.
Most recently, the love expert took to the video sharing platform to lift the lid on the things that may seem mundane but can annoy your partner.
In a now-viral video, which has been viewed 39,000 times so far, he described the three things that have ended love affairs: from TV shows to dating apps.
Jeff Guenther , from Portland, Oregon, has become a social media sensation on TikTok by regularly sharing his relationship expertise
Most recently, the love expert took to the video sharing platform to lift the lid on the things that may seem mundane but could be annoying your partner
He captioned the clip: “Three ‘silly fights’ that cut deep and could end a relationship!”
‘Three silly fights that can cut deep and end a relationship, because I’ve seen it people. First, agree to watch a show together and then one of you says, “F**k it, I’m bored, my honey isn’t here, so I’m going to watch an episode without them.”
‘What’s actually going on? You agreed to go on the emotional and psychological journey with your loved one, but now you move on without them? You absolute monster.
‘Trust has been broken, a betrayal has taken place. Why did you agree to a relationship in the first place, I might ask,” he said at the beginning of the video.
The second problem that, according to the therapist, tears lovebirds apart is when a person refuses to leave a dating app despite it being exclusive.
Jeff noted that people often agree to see each other alone and pause their dating profile – rather than deleting it.
“You can still message people you’ve matched with in the past and still communicate in the app,” he added.
He explained that this is “contrary to the spirit of your agreement.”
People flooded the comments section, praising the therapist for her tips
Finally, the social media star revealed that allowing your “most recent ex” to continue using your streaming accounts, like Netflix or Hulu, could cause major problems in your current romance.
Jeff noted that you need to “set this final frontier and delete their account.” ‘
People flooded the comments section praising the therapist for her tips, as one said: ‘Tough on the first one, my mum did that to me.’
Another user wrote: ‘Ooo, these things piss me off.’
Someone else commented: ‘You did well.’
“Omg the TV happened to me and the pain is real,” another person added.
