Content creator, businesswoman and lawyer Maureen Waititu has revealed how she contributed to the breakup with Frankie JustGymit who is the father of her two sons.
Speaking in an interview with Dr King’ori, Maureen said that most of the time people tend to blame the other parties for breakups without realising that they also played a role.
In her case, Maureen said that she realised after breaking up with her baby daddy that she had abandonment issues that affected her relationship.
“For anyone who has been in a relationship it reaches a point where you realise that there is something you did, although we are always blaming the other person. But if you are honest with yourself and identify your mistakes, like I used to have abandonment issues where I would cling on someone when I notice that they want to leave me or in case of a fight. Afterwards when I got to learn what my issues were it became easier to deal with them. Right now if I fight with someone I will not think of being left because fights happens.”
Maureen went further to explain that her fear of being abandoned came as a result of her mom not being present in her life. She revealed that sometimes she would go and come back after three months. That at some point she used to refer to her as auntie because she did not know that she was her mother.
The mom of two disclosed that she dealt with her weaknesses using therapy where she realised that some of the things she is doing now are influenced by what she went through as a kid.
Watch from minute 21:50.
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