People from all over the world have revealed the simple ‘cheat codes’ they swear by every day – and almost anyone can apply them.
Learning to listen, say no, speak up, ask for help, and get enough sleep are just a few of the tricks that have helped many people where others struggled.
Thousands of people took to Reddit to share their opinions and secret practices that opened doors, boosted their self-confidence, and improved their connections with others.
A man said that truly listening to understand and not to respond is the real secret to winning people over. For him, it always works, making relationships a breeze.
“This is all the vast majority of people need to get you on the right track,” he said.
Another thought: Admitting when you’ve made a mistake and being able to apologize is another underrated, life-changing skill that will make people respect you more.
Setting clear boundaries, being able to say no without feeling guilty, making good eye contact and not being afraid to speak up were also ‘game changers’ for some.
“Saying no saves you so much time, energy and stress,” someone said.
Maintaining eye contact, really listening to people and being kind to everyone are some of the secrets to an easier life, according to thousands of people
“Don’t be afraid to speak out, really. It’s just hard in some cases, but if you learn it, it will help you a lot in life,” added another.
“If you look into their eyes while you talk, no matter how simple it sounds, it helps everything,” said a third.
Others thought that dilemmas could be avoided by simply ‘shutting up’ and taking the time to observe what was happening around you.
Many say that learning to stop apologizing for things you don’t need to apologize for and asking for help when you need it are also effective cheat codes in life.
Some believed that taking a genuine interest in people and being kind to everyone is another underrated trick to making life easier not only for others, but also for yourself.
“Being nice to people, even when you don’t have to. Seriously, it’s a life hack with hidden bonuses,” someone said.
“Being kind not only helps others, it makes you feel better. It’s like a cheat code to get you further in life and it’s free,” added another.
Others said strong networks and social connections are a “secret map” to opportunities that many miss.
And then there were those who swore that getting enough sleep, exercising daily, showering, eating healthy, and cold therapy were all simple ways to feel happier, stronger, and more in control.
“Getting enough sleep is like a secret trick for everything: productivity, mood, health,” someone said.
‘Take a shower when you’re feeling down about yourself or mildly depressed. Take a shower, then go outside for a walk, get some fresh air. It works wonders,’ added another.
“If you hate everyone, eat something. If you hate yourself, take a shower,” said a third.
One man claimed that the ultimate life hack is to be lucky enough to be born into a wealthy family.
“I think people are realizing this,” another replied.