A sexologist has revealed which bedroom techniques drive women crazy.
Stirling Cooper left the Australian adult film industry in 2020. Now his mission is to ‘teach men how to be the lover their wives have always longed for.’
‘Dirty talk’ is the key to bringing a woman to orgasm ‘quickly’, he told DailyMail.com, boasting that he has made countless women orgasm without touching them.
He said: ‘A woman’s brain is her largest sexual organ. If a man knows how to use dirty talk correctly, he can halve the time it takes a woman to climax.
Stirling Cooper, an acclaimed sex coach, says men can ‘speed up’ women’s orgasms by engaging in dirty talk
Sexual drive and attraction begin in the brain, and for many women, harnessing the power of the mind during intercourse is the key to a satisfying, pleasurable experience.
“You can literally bring her to orgasm quickly.”
According to Cooper, by coaching men for years, he has “unintentionally” improved the sexual satisfaction of thousands of women.
The former porn star’s macho methods and social media presence have earned him over 200,000 fans. He also posts self-help videos on YouTube to educate men about erectile dysfunction, increasing their libido and how to be more dominant in the bedroom.
He said, ‘Every man I help, on the other side of that is at least one woman. I am inadvertently responsible for their happiness, directly through my clients.’
Sexual health and well-being are crucial and often overlooked facets of living well. But recent trends show that Americans aren’t having as much sex as they used to.
One of the most comprehensive studies of its kind, the National Survey on Sexual Health and Behaviorfound a decline in all types of partnered sex from 2009 to 2018.
The study reported that at its inception in 2009, 79 percent of people ages 14 to 17 reported having no sex. By 2018, that number had risen to 89 percent.
This can lead to resentment in a couple, fighting and distrust. This is where Mr. Cooper said he comes in.
He said, “I’ve had men who have been married for 20 years tell me they were back in their honeymoon phase and it felt like they were going on their first date.
“They say it has rekindled the sexual chemistry in their relationship and that they no longer nag and argue because both the man and the woman are back in their natural polarity.”
Sexual drive and attraction begin in the brain. For many women, harnessing the power of the mind during sex is the key to a satisfying, pleasurable experience.
Dirty talk in the bedroom can be a minefield. If two partners have never tried it before, it will likely take some extra communication to set boundaries and possibly safe words. And that extra layer of communication further enhances sex.
a questionnaire A survey of women conducted by Men’s Health found that 92 percent of women enjoyed dirty talk, but admitted that partners should agree on acceptable words before engaging in conversation.
In the same survey, 30 percent of women said they “hated” hearing the word “b***h” during sex, while 24 percent and 22 percent said the same about the words “s**t” and “w***e.”
Mr. Cooper said that when teaching men the rules of sex, he takes into account women’s sense of security, but at the same time satisfies their primal desires.
He said, ‘A lot of what I teach is about women’s autonomy. They want the space that’s given to them, but they also want the dominant, tough male type.’
Mr. Cooper, a former porn star for three years, is adamantly against porn, claiming it hinders a man’s sexual performance and creates unrealistic expectations about sex.
He said: ‘I retired from adult entertainment in 2020 and it’s important to stress that I do not support the industry.
“It’s not a sector where I would encourage anyone to go into work and it’s not a sector where I would encourage men to consume.”
